Monday, October 26, 2009

What a Great Cruise

Well we're back from our cruise! We had an amazing time on the Eurodam and got a chance to have some fun, relax, meet some wonderful people and see some cool stuff. Mostly it was just nice to get away and have some fun together. It's been a rough year for both Chris and I, so the vacation was something we'd really been looking forward to.

I've got tons of pics - so I'll try to group them so I can explain what's in the photos.

The first batch shows Alex at the airport in Buffalo with his own carry on, as well as some pictures of us going onboard and checking out our stateroom and balcony. We got on the ship, had a nice lunch in the dining room and then got to our stateroom and we were surprised to find a teddy bear for Alex from his grandma and grandpa, as well as some beautiful flowers from our family for our anniversary. We'd also signed up for the Vow Renewal Ceremony, and part of that package was another small bouquet of flowers so we just loved having the fresh flowers in our room. Alex loved his little couch (that turned into a bed at night), and we got busy unpacking as our luggage was delivered.











This next batch of photos are from our first full day on the ship. We have Alex enjoying some cold water in our cabana near the pool, as well as some pictures from the first formal night on the ship. Each seven-day cruise has two formal nights, so we all got dressed up a bit and had a lovely dinner. Our dining room steward was wonderful and would often make little origami animals for Alex. The food on the cruise was quite good, with lots of variety. I found it really easy to eat pretty healthy meals - especially as the salads and fruits were so yummy and plentiful.











The next set of photos are from our first port of call - Grand Turk in Turks & Caicos. The island itself was still recovering from a hurricane last year, and we'd booked a snorkeling excursion, so we didn't see much other than the cruise terminal and a lovely beach called Gibbs Cay, where we got to get up close (a little too close at times) with some very friendly stingrays. They ranged in size from small ones that were about 12" across, to quite big ones that were over 3 feet across. They'd come right up and swim against your legs - and even suck on your toes. You could feed them fish from your hands, but I didn't have the guts to do that - but Chris did it. Alex found it a bit overwhelming and stayed on Chris' shoulders most of the time.

We then went snorkeling and I got to go out reasonably far and see some neat fish and coral, as well as a really HUGE stringray that was mostly buried under the sand. it was probably about 5 feet across and it was kind of spooky to see it sitting there partially hidden as if it was lying in wait for you.

Alex loved the snorkeling (we'd been practicing in the bathtub and pool) and he did get to see some fish, but he didn't swim too far from the beach.









The next set of photos are from a relaxing day we had onboard the ship. We were actually docked in San Juan, but it was sooooooooooooo hot, with no breeze and we just felt like hanging out on the ship instead of going onto shore as there were no excursions we could do with a five-year-old, and we weren't interested in shopping or bar hopping. We hung out by the pool, relaxed in the cabana and Alex had fun eating lunch in the cabana. He also enjoyed "cooling down daddy" with the fans we'd been given (doesn't Chris look ever so pleased?)









The next day we were in St Thomas and we went ashore to see the sights a bit and do some souvenir shopping. There were tons of large iguanas near the port, and I was able to get one to pose nicely for a photo. This grouping of photos also has some of the other "animals" we encountered in our stateroom, including an elephant and monkey.

I also included some pictures of Alex after he'd gone to the "Pirate Party" in the Kid's Club. We weren't sure how he'd enjoy the kids' activities, but he really had fun and wanted to go most nights to the different theme parties they had. It gave Chris and I a bit of time a few evenings to go to the casino, or relax a bit, which was really nice.







The next set of photos were from the second formal night. We had dinner most nights in the dining room and were lucky to have been seated with three truly lovely women. They were seasoned cruisers and it was fascinating to hear the tales of their adventures. We had a lot of fun with them, and we hope to keep in touch. As this was the official "Farewell Dinner" (our next day was the last day of the cruise, but was not a formal night for dinner), they did some special things, including serving Baked Alaska and having the staff do a fun parade through the dining room while most people spun their napkins in the air... Alex thought this was tons of fun.

We didn't get to stay for dessert that night as it was also the night when we were doing our Vow Renewal Ceremony with the Captain. Chris and I, along with two other couples, met up in a lovely part of the Crow's Nest for a very lovely ceremony presided over by the Captain. As the next day was our official 10th anniversary, it was truly special to be able to renew our vows in such a memorable way.










The next batch of photos are from the same night, but are a few of the pictures I took of the 'dessert extravaganza' that they put on at around 10:30 p.m. Alex stayed up late that night and got to enjoy some yummy treats in his PJs.






This last set of pictures are from our last full day on the cruise. We were lucky that our itinerary included a stop at Half Moon Cay, which is a private island owned by Holland America. The beach was incredible, and the water was warm and crystal clear. The sand was so soft, with no rocks or plans or anything along the entire beach. I'm not normally a big beach person, but I had so much fun there just floating in the water and relaxing in the cabana we had for the day. This cabana was our own little private space, with loungers, and a fan and even an A/C unit, as well as our own shower, and floating mats for taking into the water.

Alex had a great time playing on the sand and swimming with me and Chris. Even though I'm normally extra, extra careful about protecting myself against the sun because I actually have a mild allergy to the sun, I managed to get a sunburn on my back and shoulders - my first sunburn ever, I think... not fun at all, but still worth it for the lovely day we had on the beach.








This last photo was from our trip home and was taken while we were waiting at the Fort Lauderdale airport. Alex decided to make his own little fort under the bench seats in the terminal and he hung out there playing and relaxing before we boarded our flight home.




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Saturday, October 10, 2009

One Week till our Cruise!

We're leaving in one week... we're so excited.



Here's a picture and quote I did up for a post I made on the Cruise Critic forums. This is an aerial view of Half Moon Cay, which is a private island owned by Holland America. This will be our last stop for the cruise before we head back to Florida, and we'll be celebrating our 10th anniversary that day so we're really looking forward to it.



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Friday, October 9, 2009

My walking lampshade

Strider has been having a bit of a rough week. Our dog breeder and vet had both recommended we hold off getting him neutered until he was 12-24 months old. Vets used to recommend getting a male dog fixed around 6 months of age, but some of that idea has been changing in recent years. With a slow-growing breed like a labrador, it is now recommended that you hold off getting a male fixed as long as you can so that they have a chance to really fill out - and they need the testosterone to fully mature. Both our vet and breeder said to only do this as long as Strider wasn't having any behavioural issues, and until recently, he's been perfectly fine.

Unfortunately, in the last few weeks, his hormones have kicked into overdrive a bit and he's getting a wee bit amorous with other dogs, which can cause other males to be aggressive, result in unwanted puppies, etc., so we decided to get him fixed asap. This was especially pressing as we're leaving soon on our cruise and he'll be in a kennel for 10 days, and we didn't want him to have to be kept separate from the other dogs.

So off to the vet he went - the surgery went fine, but the recovery hasn't been easy on any of us. Unfortunately, labs tend to be one of the worst breeds for fussing with incisions, etc., so he had to wear a 'cone' for a week, plus he had to be sedated for more than 5 days (at home) so he wouldn't do anything to rip the stitches or go nuts trying to reach the incision. At first, we just had him sedated for the day after the surgery, but he then kept trying to lick the incision, and as he had a big cone on his head, he ended up rubbing the edge of it against his, uhm, sensitive boy parts... so he was a bit tender.

Poor little bugger ended up on antibiotics, the five days of sedatives, a cream to sooth things, and reduced activity. He's doing amazing now and the stitches are due to come out in a few days and he'll be all healed by the time we leave on Thursday morning.

Here's a picture of the poor pathetic walking lamp shade - isn't he adorable though?



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Sunday, October 4, 2009

Backyardigans!

We took Alex to see his first "live" show and he had a great time. The Backyardigans did a show in Kitchener, so we bought tickets - we had amazing seats.

Here's a few pictures from the show.









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Friday, September 11, 2009

First Day of Kindergarten

Well it's official! Alex is now in Senior Kindergarten. He's going to the same school, and also has the same teacher, so we're very pleased. It's a combined JK/SK class, so Alex will still have some friends from last year that are also starting SK with him, plus a bunch of new JK students.





I'd gone to do a bunch of clothes shopping for Alex as he's outgrown a lot of the pants that fit him in the Spring, but he's between sizes - so some stuff is just too small, but the next size up is too big. This is mostly because he's going from the "toddler" clothes (up to 4T) and is now into the "boy" clothing sizes, so it's a big jump. I'm also finding that he'll fit a 4T in some clothing lines, but needs the next size up in others, so clothese shopping is getting far too complicated for my little overworked brain. *grins*

We also got Alex a brand new snowsuit this year. Ever since he came home, we've always bought his winter gear at Please Mum (one of my fav stores). The first winter outfit worked for two years, then we bought one that he wore for two winters when he was 3 and 4. He's outgrown that one, so it was off to buy yet another jacket and winter pants, and once again... he's between sizes. The 4T fit him perfectly, but if he grew at all, he'd not be able to wear the set for very long. If I'm spending over $100 on his winter gear, I want to get some good usage out of it, so we went up to the "small" in the boys sizes. It fits, but it is a bit big on him, so hopefully he won't look like the kid from "A Christmas Story"



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Saturday, September 5, 2009

Korean Culture Camp!

Last weekend was the annual Culture Camp that is run by the Korean Canadian Children's Association (KCCA). Every year, they host a camp for families with kids from Korea and it's a great weekend full of lots of great times, wonderful food, amazing people and fun things to do. We've never been able to make it before - well, we made it the first year Alex was home when he was about 14 months old, but he ended up spiking a fever early in the afternoon, so we left early.

Each summer since then, we've wanted to go, but we were always away at that time. This year, we made sure our schedule was free so we could attend and we had a wonderful time.

Families can choose to come for the entire weekend, or just come for the day (or multiple days), but we choose to stay for the whole weekend. We had our trailer there and camped out with about 10 other families. As we didn't have to worry about bringing a lot of our regular camping gear, it was a bit easier to set up (Chris did it all while I was helping with registrations), and we were quite comfortable camping for the weekend. I felt bad for others in tents as it started raining in the middle of the night on Friday and it poured for hours. I'd even thought of going to get one of my friends who was camping on her own with her two boys, but realized they'd get wetter just coming to our trailer, and would be more upset being woken up so I hoped they were okay (thankfully they stayed 99% dry and pretty warm).

Alex had a wonderful time - he's still pretty shy with a lot of the other kids and adults, but he still had a lot of fun. They had a waterfight for the kids, magic shows, lots of games with the AMAZING volunteers, a fun show that the volunteers put on the first night, campfires, etc. Everyone working at camp was volunteering their time - and they are such incredible people. There were some of the KCCA volunteers there handling registrations, cooking all of the delicious food, organizing the games, setting up the Korean market, running language lessons for the kids and parents (so we could shop in the Korean market), etc. There were also tons of older Korean teenagers and young adults there to volunteer and help out with the kids and these people were just so incredible. The volunteers and other families made the weekend so great and we really loved our time there, and hopefully Alex made some friendships that will grow over the years as we continue to nurture these connections.

One of the highlights of the weekend was a movie (Going Home) that was made by a young man named Jason Hoffman. Jason is an older adoptee, and he made a wonderful and moving film about his decision to go to Korea to meet his birth mother, and also his birth sister. We were so lucky that Jason agreed to show this film at the camp, and also to do a talk on the Saturday night with some of the other older adoptees about their own feelings about being adopted, and seeking out their birth families. All five of the older adoptees who took the time to share their thoughts and answer our questions were just amazing and I was so impressed with all of them for opening up their hearts to us, as we all know that our own kids might be struggling with the same thoughts and decisions in the coming years.

We also met a wonderful family with two girls from London. Their daughters were two of the five who'd participated in the discussion after the movie and I was just so impressed with both of these girls and their parents. It still just amazes me how our decision to complete our family by adopting Alex would bring all of these wonderful and special people into our lives.

I also got to spend more time with some of my favourite people, including Zenny who organized so much of the weekend and the registrations, and Mrs Lee who coordinated the food for over 200 people for the weekend, and ran a very fun cooking class. Rachel was also there working with all of the volunteers, and Kevin kept everything running smoothly. Reverend Soh and Mr Hahn did such an incredible job as well. I can't name everyone as so many people were involved in making this weekend happen, but we are just so grateful to have opportunities such as this.

Here's a bunch of pictures from the weekend - I had some issues with our camera over the weekend, so thankfully I was able to get some pictures from Rosa Park and Allison Pezzack.

Zenny and some of the great volunteers


The volunteers put on a show for the kids


Alex and his friend Aiden watching the show


More of the show


Alex and some friends in a tree



Some of the great volunteers


Our friends' two boys, Alex and Derek


Jason, the amazing guy who made the documentary "Going Home"


The "money" we used in the Korean Market


Derek enjoying some of the Korean "ice cream" (very yummy)


Tim, one of the amazing speakers from the adoption panel


Senator Yohan Martin, from BC, came to speak to the group


Meaghan, Nicole, Jinoo, Tim and Jason during the adoption discussion


Enjoying the campfire with some fun treats and stories


Alex (with a green mouth from a lollipop lol) watching the drumming lessons


Learning how to cook bi-bim-bap


Enjoying the bi-bim-bap for lunch


One of the amazing families we met


Some of the wonderful volunteers


The kids on last day of camp


The families on the last day of camp


One of the volunteers in "tiger" mode


The Great Volunteers!!!


More volunteers


Alex and the cool gear he bought with his own money


Riding the new scooter he bought from Zenny




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