We've Entered the "Why" Zone!!!

This past month has been a busy one, but lots of fun. After celebrating Alex’s birthday on June 11, we then celebrated our niece, Sarah M’s birthday a few weeks early in London at a pool party. Alex had a great time with Amanda and Sarah and also loved swimming with his Aunt Karen and then playing with Uncle Lew.

We spent the Canada Day weekend in Kingston with Kathy, Steve, Jennifer, Sarah, Jenny, Kian and the grandparents and it was a great time. We were able to go to a local craft fair to wander around and pick up a few fun things, and get Alex a little arm painting (he didn’t want his face painted, nor was I keen on the idea of him looking like a butterfly or other animal). At first he was quite shy with the girl doing the painting, but his curiosity soon go the better of him and he watched her closely as she drew a spider and web on his arm (his pick for design - he asked for Spider Man but she said she couldn’t do that but could draw a spider).

After the trip to the fair, Chris and I took Alex to a local farm to pick some strawberries. The berries were so juicy and ripe and Alex loved picking them as well as sampling a few from time to time. He also loved getting to ride on a trailer pulled by a tractor and walking through the fields.

After going back to Lilac Cottage to rest, we then took Alex out for his first fishing trip. It was a bit chilly and was starting to rain, but the fish were biting like crazy. I was too squeamish to get overly involved in the whole process, but Sarah was the first to catch a fish and Jennifer caught one soon after that. Alex was quite fascinated by the whole process and kept asking, “why” throughout the fishing trip, but his zeal was tested a bit once he actually caught a fish for himself. As we pulled the fish out of the water, he told us he wanted to see it, but if it got within two feet of him, he’d scream, and then would ask to see it again. We let him look for a few seconds before releasing the fish back into the water.

Kathy, Steve and the girls had to head back early in the weekend to go to an event in Toronto, but the rest of us hung out in Kingston and went to the fireworks by the Fort. This was Alex’s first taste of “real” fireworks but as we were pretty far away, I don’t think he realized how big they truly were. We’d done some fireworks in our own backyard last Canada Day and Steve and Jennifer had done a fireworks show on the lawn of Lilac Cottage the night before they left, so Alex was used to the small shows (which he found incredibly exciting!), but the big one also got him all wound up. Everytime a coloured firework went off, he’d sing the chorus from a Thomas the Train song that lists all of the colours, so I’m sure the people near us were quite sick of hearing “red and green and brown and blue” being repeated every 30 seconds for about half an hour.

The weekend after our trip to Kingston, we went camping near Peterborough with friends of ours. We each had our own site and we’d rented a tent trailer for the weekend to try it out (our friends own their own), so we camped in semi-luxury for the whole weekend. Alex loved the whole experience, and was incredibly excited once the tent trailer started getting put up once we arrived at the provincial park. He was great the entire weekend, and had fun with our friends’ two girls, and it was a lot of fun to be able to share the experience (and cooking chores) with another couple. We roasted marshmallows, hot dogs, made s’mores, went to the beach and played at the playground. If we ever go camping again, I’d love to rent a tent trailer again as it really made the whole sleeping arrangement more comfortable, and it was quite easy to get Alex to go to sleep as it felt like a little house for him, and we were able to set up Chris’ iPod and let Alex watch a bit of a movie before bedtime as a way to wind down.

We have a busy summer still planned, with trips in the works for Montreal, plus our big family trip to Walt Disney World at the end of August for the entire family. We also have a Day Out with Thomas planned for Alex in the coming weeks, so there’s lots going on.

Alex is still going to daycare two days a week and is enjoying it. He’s talking more and more and is starting to tell us jokes (not all of them make sense), and he’s really getting into lots of imagination-type play.

The other big development with Alex is that we’ve now entered the “Why” stage. He’ll ask “why” over and over again, until we run out of answers, or distract him or until one of our heads explode. A typical conversations runs like this:

Me: Don’t sit there.
Alex: Why?
Me: Because the cat is asleep there.
Alex: Why?
Me: Because that’s where she fell asleep.
Alex: Why?
Me: Because it’s a comfy place and is warm and she likes to sleep there.
Alex: Why?
Me: Because all cats like to sleep during the day and they prefer warm soft places.
Alex: Why?
*my head explodes*

Please tell me this “Why” stage doesn’t last too long.

I’ve put some new pictures into a new Canada Day album - hope you enjoy them.

Take care.

Alex Turns 3!

Well it’s finally happened. Our little baby is no longer a baby at all - he’s now three.

We had Alex’s 3rd birthday party on Sunday and it was a lot of fun. More on that in a bit.

It’s also been a busy time in our household, as the nice weather has allowed us to get outdoors more than we did in the Spring. Alex and I have gone on a few playdates, plus he went to his first “real” birthday party where he was invited, and he understood what was going on and wanted to go celebrate with his friend, Ty (who turned 3 two weeks before Alex). That birthday party was a riot and Alex had an incredible time - they held the party at a great indoor play area near here, so the kids all burned of a bunch of energy playing on the slides, climbing up the gym and finding their way down again.

We’d taken Alex there before, but he’d always wanted one of us to go with him to help him, and he’d always been a bit scared to go up too high without one of us coaxing him along.

Not at the party! Not sure if it’s because he’s getting older, more independent and more physically able to do some things, or if he saw the older kids going up alone and just wanted to be part of things, but for the first time ever, he played on this playset on his own, without Chris having to climb through all the stuff with him (I’ve put some pics from the party in the newest family album). While we loved watching him having such a great time, it was also a little sad to see yet another change in him that makes us realize how quickly time is passing for us.

With Alex’s newfound joy in climbing and sliding, Chris and I began looking into outdoor playsets for our backyard. We’d looked into them last summer, but just felt that Alex was too young at that point, plus I wanted to research them to be sure I got a good deal as well as one that was safe and sturdy.

After dragging Chris around to tons of places to look at various options, we decided on one set and somehow managed to get it home. Chris then spent that weekend, and every evening that week putting the thing together (with help from Alex and I, of course). I acted as chief engineer, organizer, project manager and Chris did the heavy lifting. It was fun to see the set come together, and Alex (and our next-door neighbour, McKenzie) could barely wait for it to be finished (I’ve put some pics in the newest album). Now that the set is done, Alex has been playing on it just about everyday.

We had a bunch of friends and family over for a lunch BBQ on Sunday for Alex’s birthday party and they all had a good time. It’s great seeing everyone, and people came from London, Mississauga, Brampton, Kingston, Oakville, Toronto (and around here) to join us. That evening, we had a bunch of aunts, uncles and cousins who live in this area over for a dinner BBQ, so it was a busy day but it was so great to see all of them too. While we live so close to one another, we don’t see each other nearly often enough so it’s nice when we can all get together and hang out.

Alex’s actual birthday was on the Monday, so because it was his regular daycare day, he brought a little treat to share with his friends at daycare. He was quite pleased to bring some ice cream and sprinkles to share with the group, and after daycare, we had a nice quiet dinner in the backyard for just the three of us. We had planned on going out for a Korean dinner, but we knew Alex was tired from a busy couple of days, so we just decided to hang out at home and eat some leftovers.

The summer now looms before us and it should be a busy one. We’re going to London this weekend for our niece’s birthday party, then to Kingston for the Canada Day weekend, then away camping with friends in the middle of July. August should be quieter, but at the end of the summer, we’re going with my side of the family to Walt Disney World for six nights - so that will be an amazing trip for all of us.

Hope you like the pictures in the newest album.

Easter Bunnies and Other Stuff

WOW - am I ever behind in updating this site. I had no idea that I hadn't updated it since Christmas, so I quickly uploaded some pictures of the first part of the year up to Easter.

Things have been busy here, as usual. Alex is growing up so quickly and talking up a storm. When we're out with him, he tends to be pretty shy and reserved, but at home, or in the car with us, it's non-stop chatter. At times it's like a running monologue of everything he's doing, and at other times, he'll get excited about something and that's ALL he'll talk about for what feels like hours and days on end.

He's still a pretty good natured little guy, but we are seeing signs of some typical two/three-year-old behaviours, but thankfully usually only when he's tired, hungry or sick with a bug.

There are days when we feel like we're living with CONFLICTO - THE WONDER CHILD! No matter what you say, he wants to do something different, and he can't even seem to make up his own mind, so we sometimes get a lot of "yes... want to go downstairs, no... want to go outside, no... want to stay inside, yes... want to go outside, no... don't like that" etc. We know it's a normal stage of his development and we're enjoying the fact that he's learning to express himself and his emotions... but it can also be exhausting as I'm sure anyone with a young child can attest.

The biggest news in our family lately is the addition to our family of a brand new nephew (for Chris and I, and a cousin for Alex). My sister, Jenny, had her baby on April 4 and he's simply adorable. He's named Kian and he's a very calm and alert baby. Alex is curious, but not overly so, but our nieces Sarah and Jennifer have been helping out lots and love having a new baby to take care of.

Kian came home on Easter Sunday, so the Easter Egg hunt was exciting, even though Kian slept or ate through most of it.

I've uploaded some pictures of Alex into the newest Family Album and I promise not to let another four months go by before I put in more new photos.

Winter and Holiday Fun

First off, let me start by wishing everyone who reads this site a very Merry Christmas and a Joyous New Year. We hope that the holidays were filled with fun, family and lots of good times and that the New Year brings you much happiness.

It continues to be a busy place in our household. I haven’t been able to update this site for almost two months (yet again), so I’ll try to summarize all of the important stuff going on with Alex and our family.

I’ve put a ton of new pictures into the “Winter Fun” family photo album, including pictures from November right through the holidays – hope you like them.

Probably the two biggest things going on with Alex over the past two months is that we moved him out of his crib and into a ‘big boy’ bed and he also moved out of the toddler room at daycare into the Rainbow Room (for kids 2.5-3.5 years of age). Both changes went through without any big issues from Alex, thank goodness, but the bed issue was a bit of a shock for us. We’d talked about moving him, but he was always so content in his crib that we never felt pressured to do so. One day when Chris was away on a business trip, Alex woke up around 4:00 a.m. and so I brought him into bed with me (in the hopes of getting a few more hours sleep) and for the first time ever, he actually fell asleep in our bed (instead of bouncing around and wiggling like crazy). I mentioned to him that he could soon be in his own bed instead of a crib, so when Chris got home from his trip, we put the new mattress down beside the crib to get Alex used to the idea, but he wanted to sleep on it that day, so we tried it and he did it without any fuss!

Within a couple of days, we took down the crib permanently (that was really a bittersweet moment) and set up his new bed, which he seemed to love. The only funny thing was that he quickly realized he could get himself out of bed and roam around his room, taking toys off his shelves, clothes out of the drawers/cupboard, etc. The funny thing was that he’d often just nod off where he’d been playing, so we kept going to check on him to find him asleep on the floor, in the doorway to his room, on his rocking chair, etc. He now stays in his bed and has hopefully stopped completely destroying his room before he falls asleep.

The other big change was the move to the next level in daycare, with a new teacher and new kids/routines. The centre arranged for him to visit the new group over the course of a few weeks, and so the transition went really smoothly and he seems to love the new room and teacher.

One other exciting bit of news was that a picture of Alex was chosen for a fundraising campaign for the Kingston General Hospital. The picture is one from when Alex was 8 months old, and they felt it really tied in with their “Light up my Life” slogan, so Alex’s picture ended up being on posters all over Kingston, on flyers and on banners at the hospital and in the Kingston Santa Claus Parade (on one of the floats). It was so cool to see our son’s picture all over the place and I’m sure Grandma and Grandpa enjoyed being able to point out their cute grandson to their friends.

We’ve had lots of fun preparing for the holidays and taking Alex shopping, decorating cookies and making a gingerbread train and taking him to visit Santa at the mall. I don’t think he completely understands the concept of Christmas and Santa and everything that goes along with it, but he did grasp the need to tell Santa that he wanted “Mighty Mac” and “Chinese Dragon” trains (part of the Thomas the Train set of trains that he is obsessed with).

For the holidays, we went with my side of the family to Chateau Montebello in Quebec for the holidays. We all had a wonderful time and got a bit of time to relax and hang out with the family. Our niece, Jennifer, got sick on Christmas Eve and was still feeling rotten on Christmas morning, so she missed a lot of the stuff, but she was so mature and grown up about it all and we were just so impressed with how well she handled missing out on so many things.

One of the most exciting parts of the visit to Montebello was that Santa made a special trip to visit the kids at the hotel on Christmas Day. He arrived on a horse (there was no snow for the reindeer or a sleigh) and waved to the crowd and then went out of sight before appearing magically on top of the hotel’s roof and then came down the chimney to hand out presents to all of the kids in the hotel. It was a lot of fun and the hotel did such a great job of organizing it.

We got home from Quebec on the 27th (we stayed overnight in Kingston as the drive is too long for Alex), and then hosted Chris’ family at our place for a brunch today. Our two nieces, Amanda and Sarah, are growing up so quick and are becoming such wonderful young ladies. They’re so good with Alex and it was great to see them and Chris’ sister, her boyfriend and Chris’ cousin and his wife and son.

We have no big plans for New Year’s, but we’re hoping to get Alex fully potty trained sometime soon and also get a bunch of stuff organized around here. We have a lot of resolutions that hopefully we’ll stick to, so I’m sure 2007 will be a great year.

Once again, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year from us to you.

Catching Up Time

I can’t believe it’s been so long since I’ve updated this website. It’s been a pretty tiring, busy and stressful few months, so I’ll try to summarize it all into a relatively short entry.

August is a bit of a blur for me. For some reason, my back went out without any warning or any injury, and within a couple of days, I was almost totally laid up. It was a tiring month, and frustrating as we didn’t know what was going on, but things started to ease up towards the end of the month and then Alex came down with a bit of a cold, and then Chris caught it and then I had it... and unfortunately, I’m prone to bronchial infections, so both Chris and Alex ended up feeling better after a few days, and I ended up in emergency. Oh well, such is life.

Onto more interesting things. Since I haven’t updated the site since early August, I’ve put a bunch of pictures into a new folder so you can see what we’ve been up to in August, September and October.

Alex continues to grow up too quickly for our liking. He’s doing very well in daycare two days a week, and is talking up a storm. He’s getting more chatty with other people as well and loves flirting with people and saying hi whenever he knows someone’s paying attention to him.

We had him signed up for swim lessons, but decided after the first one that it wasn’t for us. He loves the water, and loves swimming with us and is fearless, but the swimming lessons made us nervous as the teacher had a lot to deal with and it was hard to keep track of where the kids were, and with two-year-olds, we just didn’t think it was safe enough for us to go back a second time.

We were able to go see my parent’s in Kingston for Thanksgiving. It was a quiet weekend as Kathy wasn’t able to make it with the girls, and Jenny was busy working, so it was just the five of us. Alex had such a wonderful time with his grandparents and we took advantage of the lovely weather and went to the Farmer’s Market and did some other walking around. It was also Bob’s birthday, so we celebrated that with a cake that Alex was all excited about.

Alex and I also went to Mississauga to see a friend of ours and have Alex’s first real playdate. We visit with a lot of friends who have kids, but this was the first time another Mom and I had planned a specific date for the boys to get together. It was so fun watching them interact – if one did something, the other often tried to do the same thing. Both boys are just now getting to the age where they like playing together and interacting, so hopefully we’ll be able to have more playdates.

Alex continues to be totally enamoured with trains, especially the ones from the Thomas the Tank Engine series. He’s now got quite a few of them, and he’ll spend tons of time playing with them, organizing them, making long trains out of them, etc. He knows all their names, tells us all the stuff from the stories we read and the videos we watch, etc.

A couple of weeks ago we had Chris’ sister, her boyfriend, Lew and our nieces Sarah and Amanda over for dinner and a visit. We loved having them come by and treated Karen to a belated birthday present and cake.

Halloween was lots of fun, with going out to pick out a suitable pumpkin, carving it and then getting Alex all excited about the whole trick-or-treating idea. He was dressed as a lion and we went into Toronto so we could also see our nieces who we hadn’t seen since a wedding in September. Everyone had tons of fun, and Alex caught on pretty quickly. At the first house, he got a chocolate bar, which he wanted to stop and eat right away. We convinced him to go to the next house as he’d get something else, and by the third house he just walked up, knocked on the door and loudly proclaimed, “MORE CHOCOLATE, PLEASE” much to the delight of the woman handing out candy. He had tons of fun, and thankfully we were able to get rid of most of the candy so he just had a few small things to enjoy for a few days of treats.

The only other big news with Alex is that we’ve started the potty training, and he’s now also sleeping in his ‘big boy’ bed. For now, it’s still just a mattress on the floor, but we’ll hopefully get him moved into the full bed once he’s comfortable with being out of his crib.

Well, that’s probably enough for now... I’m sure I’m missing lots of stuff but it’s hard to condense three months of info into a relatively short entry.

Hope you like the new pics.

Celebrating Canada Day

I've been really tardy in updating this site. I uploaded a bunch of pics a few weeks ago, but never got around to updating the journal so I'm finally finding time to do that.

As it's been more than a month since my last update, I'll try to remember what we've been up to.

One of the most exciting things we did since my last post was to celebrate Canada Day with Alex. We stayed in Cambridge and took Alex out to Riverside Park to check out the midway and other things. Alex got a couple of maple leaf tattoos, and he went on his first 'ride' by himself - and he loved it. Alex also got to try cotton candy and a snow cone for the first time ever, and he liked both although he was more keen on the snow cone.

After that, we had a great dinner at home and then set off some fireworks in our backyard in honour of Alex's first Canada Day as a Canadian citizen.

We also hosted a BBQ for Chris' family, with his sister and her family coming in from London, and Chris' cousin and family coming from Oakville, as well as another of Chris' cousins who were visiting from England. We had a wonderful and relaxing afternoon and it was great to meet some more of Chris' side of the family.

Another big event in July was a huge picnic/BBQ we attended near Stratford. A family we know who also adopted a baby from Korea has an annual picnic at their home, and this was our second year attending it. They had over 120 people there, with tons of kids and babies from Korea, as well as a few families-in-waiting and some people from the Korean community who told the kids stories, did face painting and also gave a quick demo on how to make kimchee.

I've also been taking Alex to African Lion Safari lately - mostly for the waterpark as it's a pretty good one. We have season's passes, so it's an easy thing to do to go there for an hour or two and take Alex for a boat or train ride or play in the water.

We also took Alex to a "Day Out with Thomas" (as in Thomas the Tank Engine). The day was fun, but it was sooooooooo hot and Alex was a bit fussy because he was hungry, but overall he had a great time. We picked up a few mementos for Alex at the Thomas store and then made our way home with Alex falling asleep about 3 minutes after we put him into the car.

I've been busy with a bit of work and doing some scrapbooking stuff, and Chris continues to be busy with his job.

I hope you like the pics in the new folder.

Gardening, Parties and Teething

Summer is finally upon us and with it came Alex’s second birthday. It seems like just yesterday that we were waiting anxiously at the airport to see him for the first time, and now he’s officially a little “boy” instead of a baby. It is fun to see him learning, trying and experiencing so many new things, but I also miss so much of the stages that have flown by us so quickly.

I know it’s been more than a month since my last post, so I’ll try to update things for everyone.

It’s been a fun month for our family, with Alex settling in quite easily to daycare two days a week. Chris has been busy with a new product launch and some work on a new computer program his company is initiating, and I’ve been really busy with work from a few clients plus trying to get my scrapbooking business off the ground. At times it felt like I was hitting my head against a brick wall, but then I had two small things happen that turned things around so I’m more hopeful that I’ll be able to do what I hope to be able to do with this new business. If nothing else, I’m meeting some amazing new people, learning a bunch of new things, getting some scrapbooking and cardmaking done and also spending way, way, way more than I’ve earned to date. *grins*

Alex’s birthday was on June 11th, and although we promised ourselves we’d keep it small and simple this year, we ended up deciding to have a backyard BBQ and had about 30 family members and friends join us for lunch, cake and a slightly chilly afternoon in the backyard. Alex had a supremely good time, and the rest of the kids there seemed to have fun as well. The adults mostly relaxed and chatted while the kids played, and it was wonderful to get so many people we love and care about together for a fun afternoon.

We’ve also seen Chris’ cousin, Steven, and Steve’s wife, Elaine quite a few times – for breakfasts, or dinner/movie nights, etc. As we live about halfway between Chris’ sister and Steve, we’re the ideal place for Chris’ family to get together, and we’re actually looking forward to another visit from that gang when one of Chris’ other cousins visits from England this month.

There’s not a lot of other news going on other than Alex is cutting four teeth all at one time, which meant he woke up on Father’s Day with a fever that stayed with him for about 48 hours. Overall he was pretty good but you could tell he wasn’t feeling too well, and he’d often point to his mouth and tell us his “teeth hurt” but Tylenol seemed to help out, as did ice cream and popsicles. We kept him home from daycare yesterday as he still had the fever in the morning and he really wasn’t a happy camper, but he’s back to himself today.

I’ve added a bunch of new photos into a new summer album, so feel free to take a look if you like.